Polling shows the order of white gay mens racial preferences are 1) White 2) Hispanic 3) Black 4) Asian. I wondered why it was in that specific order and found out that gay men search primarily for men with "straight features" more than they do gay men with effeminate features. Apparently the subconscious links Asian gay men to be the most effeminate of gay men because of their close resemblance to females. I was like whhhaaatt??? this sux for us gay asians who want white men :(
Kind of does, but I like to look at it from an optimistic standpoint. If/when you an asian guy does find a white guy to be with, at least you know it’s something more rare and special than what other people have.
I saw your post and got really inspired (feb 4). It's something I'm working towards too, and sometimes it's nice to know others are going thru that too. Please continue to inspire us and share/update us on how that goes. :]